Using Pick up lines to meet women vs. using “free flowing lines”
You might have heard me talking about all these different seduction and dating coaches and authors, some of which have very different styles and methods from me.
Now a very interesting phenomenon among them is that a lot of them are talking about and using these “canned openers” and strange-sounding stories in order to meet women
What are canned openers for meeting women?
These are specially designed sentences, lines, jokes and stories which have been systematically created and tested to always create some reaction in some girl. They literally have a line to create any reaction you want in any imaginable situation and they have tested them until they found the versions that always get the desired result.
They actually memorize these lines to the exact word and even the exact way to tell them, to get that exact result. You’ve rarely heard me talking about canned openers or teaching you to use them.
The reason is I want you to become SO MONEY that you simply always end up saying the right thing, at the right time, without even thinking about it. I want to get you to this place where you live your life simply “having fun” and this stuff, simply happens to you, without you having to think about it.
Kinda like breathing. You can’t get to this level with canned openers. I know guys for whom having a abundant sexual life is like having a full-time job. They have to keep spreadsheets of what they said to what girl and how and when they last called her and how many days to optimally wait to call her next etc…
That’s a very stressful way to live life. And you know what? How is it even though that they know the exact most optimal thing to do in every exact situation … I fuck a lot more and a lot hotter chicks … with a 100 times less effort? Hint: no, it does not have to do with money, looks or fame, but with a little secret weapon I like to call STATE… But you’re not ready to learn about state yet, let me tell you about skill first…
Meeting Women – It’s a Skill
Skill: What is this “skill” thing I keep talking about? In short it’s doing the right thing at the right time. In more practical terms a good example is driving. You know for example that when you are approaching a right curve you need to start steering the wheel to the right, early enough that you don’t end up sliding left of the road, BUT not start steering so early that you slide off to the right of the road. You need to steer with the exact speed and degree as the curve beneath you is curving. This is a good example, because as you know, the faster you drive the better you precision has to be. If you drive at 60, you can steer as much as two, three seconds too early or too late and still be fine. In a racing car going 300, just a millisecond less than optimal will have your car flying off the road. In essence a race car driver has much better “skill” than an average driver, because he is a lot more precise in choosing when and how much to brake, steer, gear-shift… knowing when to use the brake and when to decelerate. In getting laid, skill means when to approach what woman and what thing to say under what situation. Its about knowing when it’s the right moment to try the kiss or end the date. Its about knowing when to be funny, and when to be serious and romantic.
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