Here is another cool question from yahoo answers. Check it out and see if it resonates with you.
I’m 5′ 6″ and i know there are short guys that date women who are taller than them i see it everyday to. I admit i like tall girls my self to but the thing is how do i know if tall girls don’t care about height? On top of it to i’m a mixed race and i know white girls tend to date there own race. How do these other short guys get tall women and i know for a fact it is not money.
My quick answer to this question:
Dude, I LOVE YOU. Most of the time I get a question from a short-guy, I have to tell them what you just said… Most of the time they say bullshit like “I am short, is it possible to get a tall girl if I’m short, I know its impossible, wah, wah, wah” or “Can you get tall girls without money”… Lol, most of the time I wanna slap them, coz I know (and you know) and we see short, poor guys dating tall girls all over the place.
Now, the question you have is… What does it take to date them if you’re short… Well dude, it takes the SAME things if you weren’t short. Lol, lemme explain.
You would prefer for a girl to be smart, right? And you would prefer that she like the same music that you do right? Well, will you reject your favorite pornstar (or your favorite female celebrity) hitting on you, because she’s not smart, or because she doesn’t like the same music as you do? Heck no, if she’s super-hot, you don’t even care if she can put two words together, lol.
Its the same with women and height in guys. Tall guys are a preference, but not the be-all-end-all factor. If he’s hot enough, she can overcome the height quite easily (like you can her listening to sucky music, its just a preference)… And note, women define hotness by how guys dress, how they come across, how confident, charming and charismatic or brave/alpha they are. And this is what I teach, so shortness simply means you’ll need to become even hotter than if you’re tall, but its still not a barrier in any way. You just have to invest a bit more time in becoming socially save and developing your charisma.
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I find that girls seem to find short guys cute so you’re pretty much in there anyway.
I think its the fact that you’re bothered by what you think your own faults are, hence your confidence may be a little down. A lot of women don’t care how tall you are and what your race is. But some women do care how tall you are and what your race is. They’re all different. Don’t worry too much about attracting ALL of them, cuz you won’t. Just be comfortable in your own skin and I’m sure you’ll find someone who will like you for who you are.
By being confident. It doesn’t matter what race you are or how many races you are or how tall you are or how big your biceps are; women like men who are confident and secure with who and what they are. You don’t have to be perfect, suave, and debonair you have to have a sense of humour about yourself but especially like yourself.
They’re intelligent, confident and self assured. They treat the tall (beautiful) girl like a person instead of a prize to be acquired for their trophy case.
Being successful in their career and having money doesn’t hurt, either.
Im a girl and im 5’11 and im a mixed im 50% Lebanese and different smaller parts like swedish and Norwegian and other things and i dont really care about height and being mixed doesn’t mean anything and if it does to people then there just closed minded.
here’s the facts.You have to believe in yourself and just walk up too any woman you think looks sexy and start talking to her.If she don’t want to talk fine.If she does then then there you go.You got to have self confidence.Women think thats so sexy in a man.
its all about wordplay.you can get any girl as long as you know what to do and say.and some girls arent measuring height the measuring lenth (wink wink)
I think the key is finding a tall girl that you like that also likes you just the way you are, same as anything else.
ok ?!? what kinda wuestion is this?
why do u wanna date a tall women
just to let u know most women only date guys who are taller than them
If you can make a girl cry with laughter she’ll date you no matter what you look like (within reason)
STILTS! hahaha
The same way everyone else does…
Charm them!!
find a shortergirl?
big shoes…
lol lasexi
lmao at the La’s comment
huge shoes
my boyfriend is smaller than me and im so in love with him so dont worry !
I am so SICK and tired of people placing SO much energy on short male being attracted to tall women that they FORGET that it’s a lot of tall women who are naturally attracted to short men!
What? Do you think every short man/tall woman couple you see was based on the short guy being attracted to the tall woman? Have you everthought that the tall woman approached the short guy?
My best friend is 5’7″, is physically sound, great looking and does print modeling for magazines and sh*t. He gets so many tall women hitting on him it’s ridiculous, but he turns them down because he says they’re too tall for him and prefers women his height.
But maybe it’s because he’s black. Most black and whites are total opposites in their preferences. Most white men love big breast. Most black men, big booties. Short average, wimpy white men love tall women. Tall women love attractive, confident short black men.
Short women demand tall men, average height women demand tall men, tall women exclusively demand tall men. Very few ladies like short men and it’s even rarer that a taller woman likes a man shorter than she is. It can only get worse for short guys in this world because the advancement of genetics and science directly points to the rapid growth of adolescents and teenagers. Tall is loudly becoming the norm which means more tall guys for all the girls and no such luck for the short guys. Short guys have to work harder for everything in life, often to the point of unneccessary because height is the barometer that unfairly judges quality in men. There’s really nothing a short guy can do about it. My advice is to find a hobby, spend time with good friends, exercise your brain and body and don’t make women a priority. Accept the reality that being short is not the end of the world but height discrimination will always be here. FYI I’m 5’6.