Some dude from yahoo answers had a cool question. Now, its obvious he hasnt taken my secret quiz, but ignore that, and focus on his question, and how I answer it.

Question: Hey all! There is this girl in my lecture that I find very attractive, however, i don’t see her other than the lecture each week. I have no idea how to get her attention or how to ask her out. What would the best way to go ahead and do it? Thanks for the help!

Answer:

Well, since she is in your lecture, you don’t have to focus that much on how to meet her, you have to worry more about how to attract her and keep her attracted so she wants to go out with you.

You can meet her easily, since you share the same social circle, your class. You can start talking to her by using something about the lecture. It really isn’t important how you start talking to her, since you will end up meeting her anyway over time, because you’re in the same lecture. Just be cool about it. Don’t make it a big thing.

After you meet her, don’t immediately be needy like all other men. Make her chase you. If she is so attractive, you can even tease her about something. This is great for being intriguing. Be as laid back as possible. Make it seem as if you are out of her league, even if maybe you’re not.

After a while, you can suggest to study together or just go for a coffee after the lecture. From then on it’s up to you to show her that you are a confident and charming man.

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