Some dude from yahoo answers had a cool question. Now, its obvious he hasnt taken my secret quiz, but ignore that, and focus on his question, and how I answer it.

Question:

How can i flirt???????? I HAVE 0 FLIRTING SKILLS WHATSOEVER! How the hell am i suppose to flirt o_o! Like hay babe can i get dem digits?
I’m straight D:!

My answer:

Well, flirting is not what you see in movies definitely. Flirting basically means being playful with a woman and getting in her bubble.

You can’t be flirting with her if you’re not in her bubble. To be in her bubble means to cross that official meeting part with her. Let’s say you walk into a bank and the woman working there asks you “Hello, how can I help you?”. Imagine that instead of the official “Well, I would like this account to be…” you said “No, how can I help YOU!” with a playful and seductive tone of voice and facial expression.

That’s a perfect example of flirting. She’ll most likely respond in the same playful way. If you don’t do this naturally, it will take time to develop it, but it’s worth it.