Some dude from yahoo answers had a cool question. Now, its obvious he hasnt taken my secret quiz, but ignore that, and focus on his question, and how I answer it.
Question:
How to attract women and keep them coming? There is this girl that says she into me. when i was that into her she was all over me she never stop texting me. I asked her out on a date and now she has been playing hard to get. My friends say that its because im nice and to available should i stop being sweet and just start being the on night stand guy. i am so confused how do i get her on the first date.
My answer:
Well, your friends were very right. This is unfortunately a common thing with men.
You started out by being cool and interesting and not caring too much, but after she showed interest, you turned out to be a little bit needy and predictable.
Look, just do what got her attracted to you in the first place. Don’t stop doing it just because it works. You saw that a change in your behavior made her cool off. So, continue being that interesting hard-to-get guys and she will pursue you again.
But when that happens, don’t turn into Mr. “I am all in love with you now.” That will turn her off.
Remember, keeping a woman is harder than attracting her.
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Your friends are all wrong. Women aren’t in to guys that act like idiots. What you should do is text her and ask her to go out with you. If she doesn’t respond in an appropriate amount of time. say two to three days, then forget about her. She’s not the one. There will be other women and one of them will really appreciate you. Don’t change into an asshole because of one girl or because of what your friends say. Trust. ‘;-()
Do not text her…call her. I hate when a guy asks me out in a text or just in general texts me more then he calls. Plus if you don’t get a response its annoying and will bug you the whole day.
Since you have already asked her out and now shes playing hard to get you should call her up(or see her in person that’s even better) and say do you wanna go____(here) and put her on the spot. Don’t leave it to up in the air “you wanna go out sometime blah….”that kinda thing so boring. But if shes playing hard to get that means she likes you. So you gotta work harder at getting that date by being super direct by taking the lead and making the plans.