Question:
Guys, do you actually believe these articles on how to attract women? I think they are a bunch of BS. I’ve tried some of their tactics, as well as some provided by therapists and none of them work. I’m in my 40′s and still getting the same kind of treatment from females I got in elementary school.
My answer:
Okay, I see you have a real problem here and I will give you somewhat of a different solution. I presume you are getting bad treatment from women like you said up there. They are probably taking advantage of you, treating you like a doormat, seeing you only as a friend, and not having sex with you. In other words, you probably feel that you have no power with women.
These articles that you mentioned will not cure you, as they are just small guidelines. The more cool you are the easier you will put them into practice and have success. Plus, most of those articles are intended for men in their teens or 20s.
I will recommend that you seriously check out David DeAngelo. He has many products, but you don’t need most of them. To understand the whole dating thing and how women work in so much depth, get only the Advanced Series DVD’s. That’s really all you need. I got that one myself and it’s an alphabet for dating. It made me finally understand how attraction really works. Plus, David is a mature guys in his 30s and his material is really objective and mature, very much suitable for you.
P.S. I never bought any dating products except his. Most of them are really BS.
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brother..you dont need to read an article to get the ladies….these things should come natural…more like having conversation like normal people
do you still throw food at them and pull on their pigtails?
just kidding… i don’t know what to say to that… i have trouble too, and the age of 36… but i don’t really care. as long as i can have some fun when i want to…
a positive outlook really helps!
hey those articles are for @$$#O*** dont take them seriously uncle…….
just be urself….n ull get a aunty for sure!!
I’m sorry to hear that. We are just giving advice on what we have experienced and what works best for us.
God bless
as the saying goes “just be yourself, that really holds true here in your situation. if you approach women with tactics and plans provided by others, you have a very slim chance of attracting the type of woman that will be the best one for you to be with and sustaining something beyond a date or two, because they are not getting to know the real you. first impressions, whether right or wrong are a fact of life. so just be yourself. by concentrating on tactics your taking your mind off the good qualities about you and what you bring to a relationship with a woman you encounter. edit: to chappo, he said in his statement that he has tried the tactics of others, that means he has not been just himself,and it has not worked. you advised him to go to askmen.com. yeh they might have advice on tactics that will help him meet women, but in my opinion for optimum results in meeting a woman that he could have a sustained relationship (if that is what he is looking for)with will be the one that is looking for who he is as a person, not someone who is using tactics from magazines/websites. the first impression they have of him will not be the real one.
Listen, you’re reading the wrong stuff. What you need before any sort of “approach coaching” is a boost in your confidence. Tell you what, Go here, I’m not bullshitting you; http://www.askmen.com/ . And don’t buy into that “Oh, you should just be yourself”, because if it was that simple, you wouldn’t be having the problems you are now, RIGHT?