Some dude from yahoo answers had a cool question. Now, its obvious he hasnt taken my secret quiz, but ignore that, and focus on his question, and how I answer it.
Question:
White men: how do you feel when black women approach you? Are you surprised by it? Does it amuse you? I notice that there are not many black female-white male unions.
How do you usually respond to it?
My answer:
Well, they don’t approach a whole lot of us. I guess we might feel that she wants us for our money. Unfortunately, in our society, it’s much more okay for black men to be dating white women than vice versa.
I like black women, so I wouldn’t complain if they approached me. That also depends if you are attracted to black women. Don’t buy into society’s prejudice. If you like black women, than go ahead.
If a black woman approaches me, I’ll consider it a compliment and act accordingly. I want to distance myself from all the black gangster rappers with my manners, along with the white rednecks.
So, polite is the way. You can also tease them a bit, be a little dominant, and be generally playful with them, verbally and physically.
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turned on, just like with any other women
i havent been hit on by a black girl. im not attracted to black girls but my coworker says black girls are great in bed.
I get all googly and spoazzed….
I think it’s pretty hot since it seems to be one of the last taboo interracial relationships. Black male/white female isn’t something many people are openly against any more, but most black men dislike white male/black female.
feels like being approched by any woman doesnt matter if they are white , black, or asian it feels the same no matter what race.
i love women in general. i don’t care what race or color or whatever they are. If they are attractive and have the confidence to approach me, that’s a huge turn on, confidence in a women is few and far between so i would respond by striking up a convo and getting to know her
I have a black girlfriend and she’s no different than a white girl, I just wonder what might happen to the baby…? Anyway, why would you care, if a hot girl likes you it turns you on, why does skin color matter?
Turns me off…..Makes me want to go home and take a bath
If they are attractive I get really turned on. I have a thing for attractive black women.
I’ve dated two black women in my life, I actually approached them firsthand, so I can’t give you a perfect answer on here.
Honestly, if I would have been approached by them, I would act the same way I would if any other woman would approach me. Cool confidence is the name of the game. Don’t act like a cocky asshole, but don’t sit there with your head down twiddling your thumbs either. When she talks to me, I keep good eye contact. Let ‘em know you’re not going to pansy out first thing.
A word of warning though…about 1 in 5 black men you see out there (from my own experience) will absolutely hate the fact that you’re dating a black woman. There was more than one time that they decided to really just get in my face, try to get in between us, etc. I’m not a small guy by any means (and I work in law enforcement), so, to be blunt, I have to really show them I mean business. Some will get physical, and the ones stupid enough to push it to that level aren’t going to back down easily.