Some dude from yahoo answers had a cool question. Now, its obvious he hasnt taken my secret quiz, but ignore that, and focus on his question, and how I answer it.
Question: Suppose if I see a beautiful girl on the road when I am waiting for a bus. She is so beautiful that no one can stop oneself from seeing her. Now, how to approach her who is completely a stranger to me? Also, She doesn’t know me as well.
Answer: Well, if its something like the bus stop, its easy, you have an excuse. Just ask her some information about the bus. Like has bus xyz gone by yet, and what time does it usually arrive or something like that.
Your ONLY goal is to initiate conversation. Do NOT hit on her, do not WANT anything out of her. Your only goal is to make verbal contact. Just ask the question, and get an answer. If she’s AT ALL interested in something more, she’ll continue the conversation or ask you a question. If she just point-of-matter just gives you the answer in a mechanical way, just thank her, and move back to where you were.
Now, some girls are so shy, or so not ready to meet anyone at the moment, that they’re going to answer matter-of-factly even IF they like you and want more. What will happen if this is the case, is that if you move back to your spot, she’ll keep glancing back your way. She literally goes in her head “oh wow, he was cute, I should have said something and kept the conversation going! I’m such a klutz!”… If this is what happens, she’ll then glance your way, and keep re-initiating eye-contact. This is your cue to re-initiate conversation. You’ve now been officially invited.
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Try and see if you can read the type of woman she is. FIRST look to make sure she doesnt have a ring….Does she look like the type to accept a witty joke? Does she seem like the type that would be super snotty if you “accidentally” bumped into her? Does she seem like the type that would help you if you “accidentally” dropped a bunch of papers every where?
I am a woman that would TOTALLY dig it if a guy accidentally GENTLY bumped into me and said “sorry, my legs seem broken today, did I make a mark?” or something really witty but corny…LOL
I am also a woman that would TOTALLY go out of my way to help you pick up your papers flying every where…
I also think if you arent into doing anything like I mentioned above then maybe you should just approach her…and be prepared for her to say “I am not interested” or whatever…
Just simply wait next to her for the bus and say “hey, how are you” maybe make a comment on how late the bus has been lately…somethign just start a convo…but no matter what…ANY woman loves a guy that can make her smile…so think of something witty and approach her with CONFIDENCE!
I WISH YOU all the luck in the world and hope that you approach her!
Duck tape and rope, stay low
hey this question really helped me thanks.
Say like hi! my name is ____ and you look familiar.
simple dude..confidence..like these other girlie advice..say hi..and a smile..not a freakin perverted smile..just the honest smile..and try to make her laugh..well, if she reject you outright, no worries, move on to other beautiful girls, they’re everywhere..you just have to look..
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If u walk on road nd seen a beautiful girl and you wants approach her…..jst go and stand infront of her with smile and say,exuse me “hi,can u tel me the way of xyz place…..if shez intrested in you…she”ll tell you if shez not,she says i dnt knw….if she tell uthe way of xyz place, aftr tht give her sweet compaliment….and ask her whr r u gong,if u r gong tht way,cn i go wid u if u dnt mind mis,at tht tym ask her to tel her name,dn’t stop ur conversation… Most of the girls stop dere…if u have confident u hve 2 continue ur conversation, make her comforttable….and last ask for her mobile number she wants to talk to u she will give u……
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