Here is another cool question from yahoo answers. Check it out and see if it resonates with you.

I have heard some suggestion, which is that the best way to approach a woman and start a conversation is by having no expectation. I like a girl in my school. I’m kind of shy when approaching to girl. I don’t know how to start. How can i approach without being weird? How can i start a conversation?

My quick answer to this question: You have in fact heard the best suggestion. After many years spent on this stuff, this is the number one conclusion I have made on this subject. Having no outcome is truly magical. Not only will it make your approach much easier for you… But you’ll also come across as much cooler and a much more fun guy to be.

Here’s a trick to make the “no outcome” mindset drilled into your head. Get ready as I reveal the shocking truth. You will FAIL at getting most of the girls you try to get. Most of the girls that you like, and you walk up to talk to, you will NOT get. This is true of even the best of the best of the best playas in the world. Its a myth that they don’t get rejected. In fact, they get rejected the most. They talk to and try with the most girls of any type of guy.

There is nothing you can ever do to change this fact. You will end up at nothing more than an attempt with most girls, and this is a law of the universe. You shall not get her anyway. So why worry? You know you’re going to have to talk to at least a dozen girls like her before anything happens. So, knowing this, why not make it easy? Just go up and talk to see what she’s like. If she shows interest and starts flirting, that’s great. If she doesn’t, oh well that’s fine too.