Some dude from yahoo answers had a cool question. Now, its obvious he hasnt taken my secret quiz, but ignore that, and focus on his question, and how I answer it.

Question:

White men: how do you feel when black women approach you? Are you surprised by it? Does it amuse you? I notice that there are not many black female-white male unions.

How do you usually respond to it?

My answer:

Well, they don’t approach a whole lot of us. I guess we might feel that she wants us for our money. Unfortunately, in our society, it’s much more okay for black men to be dating white women than vice versa.

I like black women, so I wouldn’t complain if they approached me. That also depends if you are attracted to black women. Don’t buy into society’s prejudice. If you like black women, than go ahead.

If a black woman approaches me, I’ll consider it a compliment and act accordingly. I want to distance myself from all the black gangster rappers with my manners, along with the white rednecks.

So, polite is the way. You can also tease them a bit, be a little dominant, and be generally playful with them, verbally and physically.

Very often you will see attractive women in groups. Usually there are a couple of attractive women together in a bar or in some other place. Many guys have many limiting beliefs considering meeting a woman who is with her friends. Usually most of the guys just quit when they see a woman in this situation. It is crucial to understand that guys don’ approach women with friends because they think it’s just too difficult or they think they won’t succeed..

I think that all guys should learn that approaching women who is with her friends is actually simple and easy. The first thing you should have is a simple line to start a conversation and then you are to go.

The 3 simple steps to approach a woman surrounded with friends are:

The first thing you should do is to walk over to her and ask a simple question. The question should evoke a positive response and keep the conversation interesting and light-hearted. You could ask a question about fashion, celebrities or some social drama.

Another thing you should keep an eye on is your level of relaxation. Just look relaxed and comfortable. If you are comfortable with the situation they will be too. Try to get her and her friends seated down somewhere with you. After a bit of conversation you should ask the girl for her number. Invite all of the girls in the group to join you at a party or some other social gathering. By doing this the other girls will feel loved by you.

Actually approaching groups of women is much easier than approaching a girl that is by herself. Women know that is much more difficult for a guys to approach a group and by knowing that they will value your effort more.

Because they feel protected girls in groups are more inclined to conversation. If you approach a single girl and ask her a question you could get an answer or you could get nothing. But if you approach a group one of the girls will definitely answer you, and by doing this you are in the conversation.

by muckster

Yes you know that feeling. Just when you psyched yourself up and you are ready to approach – there it comes. Palms are sweating, your heart is beating like crazy. Your mouth is getting drier and drier. You feel fear going through every part of your body, fear is eating you to the bones. Legs are becoming heavy and you are suddenly sweating as a pig. Congratulations you have approach anxiety.

And no.

IT WILL NEVER GO AWAY.

Let me say that again.

IT WILL NEVER GO AWAY. THERE IS NO TECHNIQUE, HYPNOSIS, AFFIRMATION OR ANY OTHER MAGIC BULLET THAT WILL MAKE IT GO AWAY.

Nice, when you got magic bullets of your shoulders now we can do something about. What you can do when you start to feel approach anxiety. Nothing except to accept it. Ride it like a a wave. Feel the fear going through your body, feel your heart insane beating. Breath it, breath INTO it. And suddenly it will not be so scary. Accept it fully and then move on. So the recipe is simple: Feel it. Accept it. Do it.

Approach anxiety is GOOD, it separates the weak from the strong. Not all men are meant to have young sexy women at their feet. Only the mean that can conquer their fear can have the best things in love. The best choices for you are always simple, but they are not EASY.

How would life look if any guy could approach any girl. Let me tell you – it would be a disaster. Imagine all that beta children running around. So nature has found a way of dealing with that. It’s the fear, we have found a pretty name for it – approach anxiety something. But in its essence is fear – fear that you will die, fear that your ego will die.

So let it die, let yourself to die a thousand times for women.

Here is a nice article by some guy who obviously hasnt taken my secret quiz. The article is ok, it has some good points, and you might find it useful if you have already taken the quiz yourself.

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Beautiful women are always the fantasies of men, not only those handsome men but even those average looking men. Figuring out how to approach beautiful women is something most men avoid due to fear of rejection. Contrary to what most men think that beautiful gorgeous women are just for nice looking men, the good news is that you can win a beautiful woman’s heart regardless of your looks, age, or bank account size if you know how to approach beautiful women.

Here are some tips on how to approach beautiful women to achieve dating success:

Do the first move. Don’t get intimidated that she’s too beautiful for you; most men avoid approaching beautiful women because they believe that approaching beautiful women is like answering hard puzzles or solving complicated mathematical equations. Men think that beautiful women are usually chased day and night by men for dates and decided not to ask her anymore for the fear of rejection and too much competition. When the truth is, most beautiful women, stay single because men are intimidated by them and there are not enough guys who have the courage to ask them out or make the first move.  It rarely happens that women do the first move especially if she’s a beautiful gorgeous woman. Men should know how to approach beautiful women first.

Be natural and friendly. Don’t look too amazed and stutter when you talk, this is very important in learning how to approach beautiful women. Gorgeous beautiful women are not different from other women or from other people so treat her like a normal person. Being friendly with her will have the same effect as with most people, if you treat her with kindness and friendliness, they will respond on the same manner.

Initiate a conversation that will interest her. Most beautiful women think that men are interested because they are just amazingly beautiful so avoid mentioning about her appearance. Initiate a conversation that will interest her. It could be about a movie or music she likes or a hobby that you both have. Don’t be arrogant, act naturally and politely making her feel safe and respected. Smile and maintain eye contact during conversations and it will never show that you were having a hard time figuring out how to approach beautiful women like her.

Take things slowly. Do not rush things, remember that you were a stranger to her and you are on the “getting to know each other” stage. Do not stalk her or call her everyday that she feels annoyed and disturbed after establishing a good conversation with her. Yes she is an astonishingly attractive gorgeous woman, but still you have to keep your cool and act slowly but surely. Let her take her time to know you more and take your time to show your good intentions.

How to approach beautiful women could be a real challenge but if you really, really want to meet that gorgeous woman of your dreams and have her forever, it should not just be a dream. You could make it a reality if you learn the right way how to approach beautiful women.

Some dude from yahoo answers had a cool question. Now, its obvious he hasnt taken my secret quiz, but ignore that, and focus on his question, and how I answer it.

Question: Suppose if I see a beautiful girl on the road when I am waiting for a bus. She is so beautiful that no one can stop oneself from seeing her. Now, how to approach her who is completely a stranger to me? Also, She doesn’t know me as well.

Answer: Well, if its something like the bus stop, its easy, you have an excuse. Just ask her some information about the bus. Like has bus xyz gone by yet, and what time does it usually arrive or something like that.

Your ONLY goal is to initiate conversation. Do NOT hit on her, do not WANT anything out of her. Your only goal is to make verbal contact. Just ask the question, and get an answer. If she’s AT ALL interested in something more, she’ll continue the conversation or ask you a question. If she just point-of-matter just gives you the answer in a mechanical way, just thank her, and move back to where you were.

Now, some girls are so shy, or so not ready to meet anyone at the moment, that they’re going to answer matter-of-factly even IF they like you and want more. What will happen if this is the case, is that if you move back to your spot, she’ll keep glancing back your way. She literally goes in her head “oh wow, he was cute, I should have said something and kept the conversation going! I’m such a klutz!”… If this is what happens, she’ll then glance your way, and keep re-initiating eye-contact. This is your cue to re-initiate conversation. You’ve now been officially invited.

Here is a nice article by some guy who obviously hasnt taken my secret quiz. The article is ok, it has some good points, and you might find it useful if you have already taken the quiz yourself.

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Guys, how would you like to approach women without fear or hesitation?

There are loads of ways to do it, but nothing quite like what you’re about to read.

In his Approach Women–NOW!” multimedia course, Carlos Xuma doesn’t give you random techniques that any 15-year-old with an Internet connection can write. Instead, he explains, in illuminating detail, the laws of attraction, and how to apply them to go from the approach–to your final destination, dating the girl of your dreams–NOW.

Carlos gives some pretty amazing ways of approaching women. One I particularly like is his “A.I.M.” system. It’s quite unusual, but it works. That alone makes the package (which is quite reasonably priced) worth buying.

But you’re not just getting openers, and they’re not copycat schemes: Xuma teaches you how to CUSTOMIZE them to who you are, so you feel comfortable doing them, and have a higher chance of them WORKING. He does this through his “Five Levels of Approachers”–you’ll see which one you’re at, and how to achieve phenomenal growth by using the right approach strategies for you. It’s really useful information, all on 4 easy-to-listen-to digital audio CDs. You can listen to them in the car, at work, wherever. Very convenient.

Finally, I particularly enjoy how Carlos teaches you the necessary fundamentals of pre-approaching mindsets, the “Monk’s discipline” technique (very cool!), and one thing that not too many “experts” over (but should): What you absolutely MUST avoid doing during your approach to avoid the “uncomfortable silence” situation…

Fortunately, if you do get into the “uncomfortable silence” stage, Carlos offers ways out!

That’s because he also discusses his patented Alpha Attitude gameplan, and what you need to do to become alpha. Once you do that, you’ll never fail!

Some alpha characteristics Carlos discusses, along with how to attain them, are:

* Qualification: The Essence of Alpha Attitude

* REAL Game Philosophy (this is great)

* Sexual communication

* Social Proof and High Social Value (very interesting)

* 5 Things to NEVER Talk About with Women

* The Keys to Dating Success

* How Even Geeks Can Get ’10′s’ with Alpha Attitude, and my personal favorite:

* Using Applied Skills in Conversation to Drive Up Interest, Trust, and Rapport–VERY useful info

So what you’re getting in Approach Women–NOW! is not generic information on just approaching, but a complete GAME-PLAN to become a naturally attractive and confident man, who can not only approach, but ALSO seduce and delight the girls he desires. Yes, even the 10′s!

It’s all great stuff that I find really speaks directly to the average Joe like you and me. Not to the rich, successful guys who don’t need this stuff, not to the 7-feet-tall jocks who can get any woman they want (or can they? Not always…).

FINAL RATING: Definitely take a look now at Approach Women–NOW!. The price is very reasonable for all you get (4 CDs, 2 e-books, and 3 audio libraries), and with a 90-day money-back guarantee, so worth checking out.

I’ve interviewed Carlos and, believe me, he knows what he’s talking about. The guy speaks from experience, and you can tell he’s not a BS “pickup artist.” He’s the real deal, so you won’t regret giving his course a buy.

Here is another cool question from yahoo answers. Check it out and see if it resonates with you.

I have heard some suggestion, which is that the best way to approach a woman and start a conversation is by having no expectation. I like a girl in my school. I’m kind of shy when approaching to girl. I don’t know how to start. How can i approach without being weird? How can i start a conversation?

My quick answer to this question: You have in fact heard the best suggestion. After many years spent on this stuff, this is the number one conclusion I have made on this subject. Having no outcome is truly magical. Not only will it make your approach much easier for you… But you’ll also come across as much cooler and a much more fun guy to be.

Here’s a trick to make the “no outcome” mindset drilled into your head. Get ready as I reveal the shocking truth. You will FAIL at getting most of the girls you try to get. Most of the girls that you like, and you walk up to talk to, you will NOT get. This is true of even the best of the best of the best playas in the world. Its a myth that they don’t get rejected. In fact, they get rejected the most. They talk to and try with the most girls of any type of guy.

There is nothing you can ever do to change this fact. You will end up at nothing more than an attempt with most girls, and this is a law of the universe. You shall not get her anyway. So why worry? You know you’re going to have to talk to at least a dozen girls like her before anything happens. So, knowing this, why not make it easy? Just go up and talk to see what she’s like. If she shows interest and starts flirting, that’s great. If she doesn’t, oh well that’s fine too.