Yes you know that feeling. Just when you psyched yourself up and you are ready to approach – there it comes. Palms are sweating, your heart is beating like crazy. Your mouth is getting drier and drier. You feel fear going through every part of your body, fear is eating you to the bones. Legs are becoming heavy and you are suddenly sweating as a pig. Congratulations you have approach anxiety.
And no.
IT WILL NEVER GO AWAY.
Let me say that again.
IT WILL NEVER GO AWAY. THERE IS NO TECHNIQUE, HYPNOSIS, AFFIRMATION OR ANY OTHER MAGIC BULLET THAT WILL MAKE IT GO AWAY.
Nice, when you got magic bullets of your shoulders now we can do something about. What you can do when you start to feel approach anxiety. Nothing except to accept it. Ride it like a a wave. Feel the fear going through your body, feel your heart insane beating. Breath it, breath INTO it. And suddenly it will not be so scary. Accept it fully and then move on. So the recipe is simple: Feel it. Accept it. Do it.
Approach anxiety is GOOD, it separates the weak from the strong. Not all men are meant to have young sexy women at their feet. Only the mean that can conquer their fear can have the best things in love. The best choices for you are always simple, but they are not EASY.
How would life look if any guy could approach any girl. Let me tell you – it would be a disaster. Imagine all that beta children running around. So nature has found a way of dealing with that. It’s the fear, we have found a pretty name for it – approach anxiety something. But in its essence is fear – fear that you will die, fear that your ego will die.
So let it die, let yourself to die a thousand times for women.
